About Bonnie:

Bonnie Simon Bellefy was an ordinary married office worker in Cleveland, Ohio until the life she expected to live was derailed in 2008. Her husband unexpectedly passed away at the age of 45, sending Bonnie on a journey of the unexpected. “If Life isn’t going to hold up its end of the bargain then neither am I!” And with that she moved to Colorado, quit her steady job in the middle of a recession and began exploring what kind of life she wanted to live.

Her new life included a flock of backyard chickens from the start. Those intrepid yard birds helped her make sense of life, death, and her persistent question of “Why am I still here?” The chickens inspired a book called Setting the Wastebasket on Fire; When Chickens Bloom in the Widow’s Garden.

Bonnie began a surprisingly meaningful career as an auto broker in 2019, helping women avoid going to dealerships, where they often feel uncomfortable, and helping them get the right vehicle for their needs.

Bonnie enjoys making the process easy and fun for her clients. After all, if you’re going to spend tens of thousands of dollars on something, it should be at least a little bit fun!

These days, Bonnie lives in Colorado with her delightful husband and a menagerie of animals that includes cats, dogs, doves and, of course, chickens.

This is the only photo we got of our wedding! Curious why? Here's a blog post!

Engaging Speaker for Events: Bonnie Simon’s Inspiring Stories and Humor

Bonnie is an entertaining speaker who captivates audiences with her unique blend of humor and wisdom. Drawing from her personal journey of loss, redemption and her unexpected lessons from her backyard flock of chickens, Bonnie shares insights that inspire and empower others to embrace life's challenges.

Topics Covered

- Dating with Purpose

- How to Sell without Feeling like a Used Car Salesman

- Resilience: Living Life with the Faith of a Chicken

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Deliberate Dating Demystified:

A Discussion for Single Women

It's hard to dispute that nearly everyone hates dating. It's exhausting. It uses up a lot of time, energy and money, mostly with minimal results. And how many times can one person get her heart broken before giving up?

It sometimes feels as if one has to choose between dating and living a happy, productive life!

In today's world of Internet dating, people have all kinds of ideas about what they are looking for, what is appropriate behavior and how to select a mate. Miscommunication, embarrassment and heartbreak are common, but a way to minimize these risks does exist and can be adapted to look for nearly any desired relationship.

Are you the organizer of a group looking for speakers on topics of interest to singles?

Gather your group together and we'll talk about dating deliberately. Learn about a time-tested method of finding lasting love without wasting time or getting your heart broken over and over. Equip your group with the knowledge of how to look for love without sacrificing the energy to live their lives happily and productively.

Sat 10 Feb 2024
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Testimonials

Here's what people think of their time with Bonnie:

[The Deliberate Dating talk] was great, Bonnie - you have so much to give.
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April B

Loved getting to glean from your story, Bonnie!
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Leah B

Bonnie, your story and insight will be a gift to many young women.
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Stacia L

Bonnie - The most interesting person you've ever met!
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Bonnie is genuinely authentic and warm, making her incredibly easy to talk to. She exudes a sense of safety and wisdom, and she truly embodies the “big sister” role she describes herself as. If I were still navigating the dating scene, I would absolutely turn to Bonnie to help make sense of that confusing world and to craft a plan for dating with intentionality. Her fantastic sense of humor and wonderful storytelling ability are assets that I’m confident will shine in her speaking presentations. Bonnie is a wonderful human being, and I hope to have the opportunity to work with her again soon.
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